Sometimes when iChat AV lacks enough bandwidth for high quality audio chat, it chokes the throughput by degrading audio quality. This can be a pain, as when you regain your full bandwidth, you'll still have poor audio quality conferencing because of a bottleneck in the past.
To let iChat re-evaluate its quality setting implicated by the available bandwidth, just push the mute button and then press it again to toggle the audio on and off -- voila!
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